When life occasionally throws you a curved ball do you stop and wonder: “Is this it, is this my destiny?” and feel that there’s nothing that you can do about it?
Now, I can’t tell you what destiny is or is not, only how I make sense of the world I live in as I presently see it.
Destiny as a predetermined course of events or as some ultimate power that predetermines such events simply does not make sense to me.
You are ultimately in control of your life and are responsible for where you are in life. The one common denominator in everything that you ever do is you.
This does not mean that you are in control of all circumstances that develop around you. Sometimes stuff just happens. You are, however, in control of how you react to those things that are out of your control.
You can take notice of what is happening in the world and you can choose to prepare for things that you might happen. Like taking out insurance against fire, flood, burglary, illness, etc.
You can look at all the “what ifs” that might occur. Like being made redundant or your business slowing down, your computer failing. You can develop back up plans. Large organisations develop disaster recovery plans. You can have a plan for “what to do if …”
In a nutshell, you are responsibility for where you are in life and how you’re going to get from where you are now to where you want to be.
In spite of everything we all find ourselves stuck from time to time. We just can’t see the wood for the trees. We face a seemingly insurmountable obstacle – physical or mental. We run out of ideas for how to achieve what we want our life to be about.
You need to retake control, work out where you are now, how you got to this point and how to get where you want to be.
Your life is not predetermined. You are responsible for how you got to where you are now so why not take responsibility for where you go next?
Does this resonate with you? Are you ready to take responsibility for your life story, to take control, live life on your own terms and achieve what you really want your life to be about?
If you’re ready:
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